Sunday, September 1, 2013

Humility Before God

22nd Sunday In Ordinary Time – Cycle C
Sirach 3: 17-18, 20, 28-29; 
Hebrews 12: 18-19, 22-24a; 
Luke 14: 1, 7-14

There was a good reason why the guests observed Jesus closely when he went to dinner. Jesus had a bit of a reputation for unorthodox behavior at dinner parties. On two previous occasions, he had shocked the guests. There was that meal when he had allowed a woman to perfume his feet. At another feast, he had begun eating without the ritual washing of hands. And now there was this meal at a leading Pharisee's house – not just any meal – but a Sabbath dinner. What new act of “bad manners” would this rabbi from Nazareth commit at this sacred celebration?

That is why they observed him closely.

The irony of today's Gospel is that Jesus was observing them closely. He noticed how the sophisticated religious leaders were acting like children, grabbing the best seats around the table so that they would appear important. As usual, Jesus turns the tables. He always reverses the order we think should be in place. He tells them to sit at the lowest places so that they will be invited by the host to come up higher. Jesus is trying to show the dinner guests how to be humble. What he is truly teaching the Pharisees and us is this: Remember where you stand and in whose presence.

Even though the dinner guests observed him closely, they failed to recognize that they were standing in the presence of, not just the host of a dinner party, but the host of the heavenly banquet, Jesus himself.

Remember where you stand and in whose presence.

There is a danger here, a pitfall that we all must navigate. I will call this danger the “mask of humility.” There is a big difference between acting humble to impress others and genuine humility.

In 2004, my wife and I entered into formation for the diaconate. At our first class, we took turns introducing ourselves and telling our life stories. There were seventeen new aspirants plus spouses in the room, and as we listened to these stories, one of the men became more and more convinced that he was in the wrong place. He heard about years in seminary that ended before completion. He heard of years of parish service and parishioners telling them that they would make good deacons. He heard people talking about their callings – how they were absolutely certain that they had a vocation to the diaconate. Two of the people present had even experienced miraculous healings. The man to whom I am referring had experienced none of those things. He was the last to speak that day, and when he spoke, it was without a “mask of humility.” He admitted he didn't know if he had a calling and said that, after hearing the other stories, he was feeling inadequate to the task. When he had finished, one of the others said something that has stuck with me. He said that none of us is worthy to serve the Lord, but our desire to humbly serve, coupled with the grace of God and the movement of the Spirit, may just be enough.

Let me say that again – our desire to humbly serve, coupled with the grace of God and the movement of the Spirit, may just be enough.

In a few moments, we will all be sharing the greatest gift of all, the Eucharist. The Eucharist is the great equalizer. At this meal of the Lord we are all the same in God's eyes. God recognizes and rejoices in both our accomplishments and our shortcomings. It doesn't matter if we are the first in line or the last. It doesn't matter if we are rich or poor, famous or unknown, religious or not, no one is greater than the others. The gift of the Eucharist is the same for each of us. That's why it is foolish to wear a mask of humility before God. In the presence of the Host of this Eucharistic meal, the Lord instructs each of us to remember where we stand and in whose presence.

And because the Eucharist is supposed to spill out into the rest of our lives, during all the meals that we share this week – at home, at work, at McDonald's, or if you are lucky, at a nice restaurant, remember where you stand and in whose presence. If we can do this, we can all remove our masks and know what God means by humility.

Deacon Darryl J. Diemer
22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
September 1, 2013

Painting:
Georges de La Tour
Christ In The Carpenter's Shop, 1645